I'm Dr. Sue Mandel and welcome to my site. As a Psychologist, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Dating Coach, and Certified Professional Life Coach I'm excited to share my skills, expertise, and personal post-40 dating lessons (& successes!) with you. Over the years, I have helped hundreds of women just like you get out of their own way in order to bring the "right" love to their lives. Are you going to wait for love and meet the "natural", organic way? Or be proactive and learn everything you need to know to meet Mr. Right wherever you are, and be a knockout date and partner?

After all, there is NO better investment than you. 

So, ask yourself, "Is the person I want different from the person who is right for me?" Don't waste one more day picking the wrong guys. Do what works! 

Coaching is done in person, online, by phone, email, or text for quick questions. Contact Dr. Sue for your free consultation to discover what's right for you.

Be proactive and take it easy, connecting with other single women from the comfort of home. Connect with new friends, enjoy a glass of wine, and show yourself some love!  

So, what will we do together? I will guide you to finding the great love of your life, and help you become the authentic self in a relationship that you've always dreamed of. 

But finding a partner is just part of the equation. 

Learning to flirt and be your most playful self; reconnecting with your confidence to attract a great partner; knowing the secrets of successful online dating; and figuring out who will ultimately make you happy is some of the great work we will do together. Learning about your relationship style, personality type, temperament, and more are ways that help us get there. 

Become more approachable, and know how to successfully approach! The exciting part is that from the moment we get started, you will have practical suggestions to use right away. As your dating mentor, cheerleader and "doctor of romance", I will provide the map so that you can arrive at exactly the place you want to be in your love life, holding your hand along the way. You don't have to go it alone--until you're ready!  

So whether you're looking to meet new people, or find your "Plus 1", a little bit of mentoring might help you get going; or perhaps a full makeover to help you feel and be your best. Standing out from the crowd and thriving once you meet that special person is your goal, and I'll show you how to reach it. 

Take a look at some of the date coaching services. Then, lets make a time to chat at no charge and see how you can rewrite the story of your love life! 

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When you want to attract a man of value, he will be looking for a woman of value.
The question isn't whether you ARE a woman of value; the question is, do you know it?

Have fun discovering surprising parts of yourself that became quiet over the years. Become the best version of yourself, love your success and your femininity, and learn the barriers that prevent you from bringing love into your life!