Who among us doesn’t feel incredibly special when we get flowers, jewelry, and other meaningful items from guys we date or are in relationships with? We feel loved, thought of, and cared about. Gifts and other gestures remind and reassure us that we’re worthy and special, something we often have a hard time doing for ourselves.Read More
It all starts with a kiss.
We’ve all been there. You meet a guy that you really like, the first couple of dates are great, and you can’t wait for that first kiss. But when it happens it’s awful (sometimes really, REALLY awful). But while you’re frustrated and disappointed, you’re not ready to give up on him yet. As a dating coach to women over 40, I have numerous happily coupled women who did exactly what I'm about to share with you.Read More
in the early stages of getting to know someone new, while trying to get through sticky moments (i.e., he gives you a passionate hug and his unintentional body language gives away just how much he likes you!), it's tempting to give in to your fears and let someone who might have been your true love leave your universe.But, regardless of who you end up falling in love with, you won’t get there without a few misfires. So don't give up too quickly.Read More
Not long ago I was talking to a divorced friend who told me how she and her dad were out walking and discussing the challenges of finding love after 50. My friend is generally pretty optimistic, but when it comes to dating she’s pretty skeptical about falling in love again.Read More
Everyone has a theory about why they are still single over 50. Challenging past relationships, poor role models and even too few fish in the proverbial dating pond top the answers that most of my clients give. Trying to flesh out the real culprit sends lots of people to the self-help aisle and many more to therapy.
But for a question like this, you don’t have to pay your shrink thousands of dollars if you can embrace one simple concept. The real reason why you’re single won’t be found in another person, it will be found inside of you.Read More