Make This Your LAST Valentine’s Day Alone: Here’s How

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Make This Your LAST Valentine’s Day Alone: Here’s How

Valentine’s Day is filled with meaning for everyone who cares about love. Often, it’s our relationship status that dictates how we approach the holiday. Like me, your cynical side (maybe rational side?) probably speaks to you about how it’s all media hype; that somehow buying into it is being herded like sheep all the way to your Visa account.

Being single in this love-crazed mentality makes it difficult to feel anything other than disheartened, lonely, and even embarrassed. But being in the wrong relationship is much worse, and we can all be subject to the “grass is always greener” state of mind. So if you have found your way out of a bad marriage or relationship there is a lot to celebrate.

What we all really want is to be in a truly loving relationship--and that is not only possible, it’s probable if you do what it takes.

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7 Tips To Take His Kissing From Awful To Awesome

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7 Tips To Take His Kissing From Awful To Awesome

It all starts with a kiss.

We’ve all been there. You meet a guy that you really like, the first couple of dates are great, and you can’t wait for that first kiss. But when it happens it’s awful (sometimes really, REALLY awful). But while you’re frustrated and disappointed, you’re not ready to give up on him yet. As a dating coach to women over 40, I have numerous happily coupled women who did exactly what I'm about to share with you. 

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6 Ways To Keep Your Cool In Awkward Dating Situations

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6 Ways To Keep Your Cool In Awkward Dating Situations

in the early stages of getting to know someone new, while trying to get through sticky moments (i.e., he gives you a passionate hug and his unintentional body language gives away just how much he likes you!), it's tempting to give in to your fears and let someone who might have been your true love leave your universe.But, regardless of who you end up falling in love with, you won’t get there without a few misfires. So don't give up too quickly.

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The Missing Link To Finding Love? Here’s The ONE Tip You Need

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The Missing Link To Finding Love? Here’s The ONE Tip You Need

Not long ago I was talking to a divorced friend who told me how she and her dad were out walking and discussing the challenges of finding love after 50. My friend is generally pretty optimistic, but when it comes to dating she’s pretty skeptical about falling in love again.

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Wonder Why You’re Still Single Over 50?

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Wonder Why You’re Still Single Over 50?

Everyone has a theory about why they are still single over 50.  Challenging past relationships, poor role models and even too few fish in the proverbial dating pond top the answers that most of my clients give. Trying to flesh out the real culprit sends lots of people to the self-help aisle and many more to therapy.

But for a question like this, you don’t have to pay your shrink thousands of dollars if you can embrace one simple concept.  The real reason why you’re single won’t be found in another person, it will be found inside of you.  

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